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Thread: Why I does he stare?

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    Why I does he stare?

    Thereís this guy at my work , that we have been kind of pursuing each other.trying to talk to each other any chance we get. Yesterday he was walking by the room I was in, and at literally stared at me the whole time while walking by. i believe heís interested in me. What does it mean. We conversed a lil bit in the room and I flirted with him a lil bit before we both said have a good weekend. I just donít know what to make and of it. There was another time in church and he stared at me from a pew for a long time. Iím very much into him but Iím afraid of getting hurt or not feeling good enough for him. Any suggestions? Also a friend of ours suggested to him that I would be a great girl for him. Thanks

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    Lets kinda cut to the chase, staring could mean any number of things

    What do YOU want it to mean?

    What are you willing to do to move things forward, he can stare till the cows come home until one of you makes a move its a speculation.

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    Originally Posted by sparklystars28

    There was another time in church and he stared at me from a pew for a long time.
    How do you know this? That he was staring at you?

    Do you have eyes in the back or side of your head or something? Lol

    Could it be you were the one staring at him, he sensed it so looked over to see if you were?

    Otherwise how would you know he was staring? Think about it.

    These "staring" threads crack me up, seriously there are so many things it could be, like FIO said.

    I suggest since you like the dude, stop staring at him, or believing he's staring at you, and ask him out.

    That is the ONLY way to determine if a guy is into you.

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    Eye contact typically indicates interest. People really don't look at things they don't like.

    I mean think about the last time you were walking down the street and made eye contact with someone you found unattractive. You likely looked away immediately and somewhat dismissively. It's only natural to do so, of course, and usually happens unconsciously.

    Talk to the guy and see if he makes an effort to hold a conversation with you. Speculating about him staring won't move the situation along.

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    He might be wondering why YOU are staring at HIM!

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    If you're interested in him, ask him to meet you for coffee. The worst he can do is decline. If he's receptive to coffee, gradually establish a good acquaintance, then friendship and see how it goes. Take it slow though. Get to know a person first before getting your emotions involved otherwise you'll live to regret it. Tread lightly and never let your guard down.

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    Sounds to me like you're doing as much staring as he is. If he doesn't ask you out then why don't you ask him out?

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    Yes we both stare at each other it seems. I probably will ask him to go out somewhere with me. Is it bad to chase guys? Because I feel like I am at times

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    Is this the same guy you started two other threads about a couple of weeks ago?

    What is it you want us to tell you that hasn't already been said?

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    Ask him if you have a booger in your nose.. or tell him to take a picture..it lasts longer lol


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