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Thread: Too much communication?

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    Platinum Member SherrySher's Avatar
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    I think it depends on what kind of relationship you have.

    If this is your husband or fiancee, than it's perfectly normal as you both share a family due to marriage and talking things through as a couple is healthy.

    However, if this is a boyfriend, than yes, you're oversharing.

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    I try to keep in mind when confiding in one person about another that I'm setting the tone of their future with one another should I ever wish for them to meet and get along.

    I also recognize that the message I send when I complain about others is, "Yeah, I'll be complaining to someone else about YOU, too, whenever you do something I don't like."

    I'd rather cultivate trust in my loved ones that I'm capable of discretion and problem-solving on my own. In cases where I have a situation to work out with a friend, I'll take it to someone twice removed who will never have an emotional investment in the outcome.

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    You and your boyfriend are your primary family.

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