Excellent. Now you have some peace and space to reflect and plan your course of action. Talk to friends/family only when you are ready. However be much more honest with your doctors and therapist. Consult an attorney asap before he does.

Do not be an emotional hostage to any of his antics and efforts to intimidate you. This is a man who created a sham marriage and led a high risk double life. Keep in mind you must be detailed and very forthcoming with professionals. It is all confidential and nonjudgmental. It won't have the shock effect/reactions that it could on friends family.
Originally Posted by Heather98765
He has begrudgingly left the family home and is staying elsewhere.I have told a close friend that Ive caught him on a site arranging to meet women.