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Thread: Is asking for space controlling?

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    Why would you breaking up with him cause trouble for your family?

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    Originally Posted by GenConlan
    The hard thing is, when we are both happy and getting along it’s perfect and he’s the perfect person...
    Well that's true for everyone. It's what happens during the difficult times that is important.

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    Originally Posted by GenConlan
    The hard thing is, when we are both happy and getting along it’s perfect and he’s the perfect person...
    No you don't get along perfectly. You want some time to yourself or for friends on the weekend, and he refuses to give it - and its not like he says "oh i am bummed. i would want to see you" -- he basically tells you that "WE" are not agreeing with you.

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    Originally Posted by GenConlan
    Is asking for space controlling?
    No.

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    When I ask for space he says that I have space during the week when I am at home, and also sometimes calls me controlling as all he wants to do is see me and I am taking that time away from him.
    THAT is controlling.

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    However when I try to leave him it turns into such a problem that I always end up going back to him and so the cycle begins again.
    What becomes the problem, exactly?

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    Why bother telling him this when you can simply end it? Why are you hanging on to him like this?
    Originally Posted by GenConlan
    I also feel as though we are not right for each other, and I am open and honest about those thoughts with him

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    Originally Posted by boltnrun
    Why would you breaking up with him cause trouble for your family?
    I still want to know this...does he have nude pics of you or something?

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