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    Should I break up with him?

    Bf had moved to California 3 years ago with his parents because couldnít afford to live by himself in his home state. We met online and started talking he told me his plan was to move back eventually. I finally decided what I wanted to do in school and almost done with my prerequisites. He told me he would wait for me and once I graduated, we would move together back to his home state. He came back from his home state a week ago from visiting his old friends. He told me his friend moved to a big house and offering him a place to stay. He is now telling me that he wants to move already and stay with his friend and that we can still be together long distance and once Iím done I can move with him and get an apartment together. He said living here for 3 years is too long and he is not happy anymore. I feel heartbroken and donít know what to do. As it is, he lives an hour away from me and we see eachother only weekends. Now he wants to move a state away. I feel like his friends convinced him because his friends donít like me. Any advice?

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    Sounds to me he still has a whole lot of growing up to do. He looks for the easy way out, like living with his parents and now living with his buddy for little to no rent. He hasn't really lifted a finger for the last 3 years to advance financially, or be independent. And his answer to freedom is to live with his buddy a state away...I wouldn't be sad I would be pissed off with him. I'm not going to tell you what to do, I'll leave that up to you....I'm just giving you something to think about.

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