Originally Posted by Rabican
You could always tell her that it's 91+% your place and you'll treat it as such. She doesn't get a say on how you clean decorate etc.

See if you're compatible when she's not getting her way and running all over you.

But as the others have stated it just sounds like a case of incompatibility.

Funny, I did tell her that and she says something to cover it up like: So? you are still paying as if you are living by yourself and you agreed to live with me and I still do contribute. But for sure it is incompatibility .