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Thread: Friend introduced me to her best friend

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    If there is one thing that is really sexy early in a relationship, it's pressure! (sarcasm)

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    [QUOTE=lioil;7133782Also, i dont know how to ask her how she never been to US but wants to stay here.[/QUOTE]

    You say "YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN TO THE UNITED STATES. HOW CAN YOU BE SURE YOU WANT TO STAY HERE". its as easy as that.

    But really think about it -- if you live in China where you are subjected to "social credit", minimal religious freedom, pollution (some areas in China have the highest air pollution in the world.) and being a country that only recently relaxed a birth quota, wouldn't you jump at the chance to live in the United States, too?

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    Originally Posted by abitbroken
    You say "YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN TO THE UNITED STATES. HOW CAN YOU BE SURE YOU WANT TO STAY HERE". its as easy as that.

    But really think about it -- if you live in China where you are subjected to "social credit", minimal religious freedom, pollution (some areas in China have the highest air pollution in the world.) and being a country that only recently relaxed a birth quota, wouldn't you jump at the chance to live in the United States, too?

    yeah i agree with couple points but religious freedom is something gov controls but the majority of chinese arent really religious. The birth quota has its pros and cons. I believe in living within your means and only have kids when you can afford. People have kids with no means to support creates a huge social burden for all of us. But that's here nor there.
    One thing china has going for it (through discussion with chinese friends) is its a good place to make money. US as great as it is is a very mature country and very developed. China is still growing and there are many new business opportunities to be had. But yeah pollution is a HUGE thing there and i bet if we have it here the government will change its tune about environmental protection and pollution.

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    Originally Posted by lioil
    yeah i agree with couple points but religious freedom is something gov controls but the majority of chinese arent really religious. The birth quota has its pros and cons. I believe in living within your means and only have kids when you can afford. People have kids with no means to support creates a huge social burden for all of us. But that's here nor there.
    One thing china has going for it (through discussion with chinese friends) is its a good place to make money. US as great as it is is a very mature country and very developed. China is still growing and there are many new business opportunities to be had. But yeah pollution is a HUGE thing there and i bet if we have it here the government will change its tune about environmental protection and pollution.
    There is NO benefit to China's birth quota! When young women can have a career or education, it lowers the birth rate because they are having kids later in a natural way just a little and when couples marry a bit later, the same. China's one child did not naturally reduce the birth rate --- it artificially did and has caused a major gender imbalance, particularly in teenagers. I think i read there were 41 million more men than women overall. Where did the women go? Adopted by Americans, aborted, abandoned. So to me its puzzling, why you are looking for women from China who are being heavily competed for in China - Men are even looking for foreign brides in Korea, Viet Nam, etc because there is a disparity.

    Why not give us a good reason why there are not eligible women in the United States? There are 50 states and you shot down the idea of meeting an American woman because of one or two that didn't work out as a match.

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