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Thread: Getting mixed messages what do I do

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    Right, I wasn’t even planning on making anything official until I meet her once or twice in person possibly.

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    Originally Posted by jrw
    Right, I wasn’t even planning on making anything official until I meet her once or twice in person possibly.
    Make what official???
    There is nothing!

    She was too “busy” , She will let you “know” next time she is too busy for you ?!

    I’m sorry but I don’t think you are ever going to meet her in person , but she’s keeping the contact open for when she’s not too busy and demands attention and I’m sure you are going to be available when she needs you. Right?

    How long are you willing to be her safety net for?
    Until you get bored or until she is in a relationship and no longer needs you for her ego boosts?

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    Originally Posted by Billie28
    Make what official???
    There is nothing!
    I admit the exact same words floated through my mind.

    All I can say is that I hope you're still on the apps, going out, and not letting this little digital dalliance get in the way of meeting someone who exists in the third dimension. I get that it's a bummer to think you might not get more butt photos and "You're so hot" texts beamed from Minnesota to Florida, but just be realistic about what this is: butt photos, ab photos, and suggestive texts that will come and go and probably never translate to a real life meet up.

    If you can see it like that, great. If you think you're communicating with your future girlfriend or wife—dude, no. That's a hiccup away from thinking you can flip through a Playboy fast enough to get the centerfold to jump off the page and into your lap.

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    I see what you guys are saying. I did have a period where I went on dating apps again last week and a few girls in close proximity did give me their number, so at this point I do have a few others in the mix that I am seeing. I won’t put all my eggs in one basket with her anymore. Whatever happens, happens I guess. Thanks for the advice!

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