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Thread: Seeing a Married Woman for over a year - completely in love

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    Originally Posted by SherrySher
    Goddess is so right, if she was genuine, she would have left him long time ago. But even then, you would have to consider that she might do to you what she did to her husband should you become the husband one day.

    True love doesn't involve hurting other people and true love doesn't involve the kind of pain you're feeling.

    You DO have the strength to get past this. We are here to talk to you anytime you need.
    if she were genuine, she would focus on her husband and if it wasn't working, she would divorce him before looking for another man

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    Been in your exact situation. Cut off all ties to this woman.

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    Originally Posted by ajrau
    Thank you all for your support. Iíve taken the resounding advice given to me on the forum and completely cut ties with her. I know it canít be true love, and thus I need to move on. Thank you for your kind words and support. Itís a harsh reality to face, but I know Iíll come out of it stronger than ever.
    You have made the right choice. Come back to this thread in 3-6 months and you will realize several things:

    1. How did I ever end up in such a scenario?
    2. You will view her as an undesirable, low-value person that you would never want to associate with, no less be in a relationship with.
    3. You will have taken a long, introspective look at your personality and faults and better understand them. Perhaps through self-help, therapy, etc.
    4. You will be a much better person.

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    Absolutely agree abitbroken, anyone who is married and isn't happy needs to divorce before they start looking around and definitely before they get involved with anyone.

    She is a cheater, no one can deny that.

    I think what puzzles me is why the person with the cheater, can't understand that this person will eventually cheat on them too. Cheating is a type of trait that not everyone has.
    If you know this person has the ability to cheat, you can be sure that if you finally become a partner to them, you will be on the other end soon enough and they will be secretly messaging cheating etc with someone else eventually.

    Decent people don't do this. They end their relationship/marriage first,heal and then eventually date.

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    Tell her husband about the two of you. I think the two of you make the perfect couple.

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    She keeps telling she is going to leave her husband but lacks the ability to tell him herself.

    So do it for her.

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