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    Is she interested or am i delusional?

    Female manager always smiling wide whenever i smile or talk when were alone. Playfully hitting and pushing. And calling me names. Shes wiped sweat off my face with her hand. Other day i let her know i find her physically attractive. Find her oggling me when im not looking. I play hot and cold due to the situation. But she does it also.

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    You are here asking us and we aren't there.
    Why haven't you asked her?

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    Um because shes my manager i dont want things to be awkward at work.

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    I'm afraid it may already be awkward and it's because your manager is acting inappropriately in a work setting. What is the atmosphere generally like there? Do your coworkers date each other (not against company policy)? Is it more or less a fun environment or is it more corporate? Depending on your job interest or motivation or your career goals, being side tracked like this might not be a good idea.

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    Originally Posted by Kovsal
    Um because shes my manager i dont want things to be awkward at work.
    Then the answer is a mute point, right?

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    Possibly because she thinks it's a safe relationship, i.e. she assumes that you both know where the boundaries are, she feels she can tease you and all the rest. You are holding back because she's your manager and it would raise a storm of doo-doo if you did anything about it. Keep holding onto that 'holding back' feeling. It's keeping you out of a whole load of trouble.

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    I have a side job at a fast food restaurant doing truck and maintenance. So its kind of in between corporate and casual

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    Originally Posted by Rose Mosse
    I'm afraid it may already be awkward and it's because your manager is acting inappropriately in a work setting. What is the atmosphere generally like there? Do your coworkers date each other (not against company policy)? Is it more or less a fun environment or is it more corporate? Depending on your job interest or motivation or your career goals, being side tracked like this might not be a good idea.
    have a side job at a fast food restaurant doing truck and maintenance. So its kind of in between corporate and casual

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    Speaking as a supervisor, what she is doing is inappropriate, however she is completely into you. If you feel the same way, perhaps have a conversation with her outside of work hours. Talk openly about your feelings for each other, keep it strictly professional at work and enjoy your time together away from the workplace.

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    Just enjoy the flirting but don't get involved at work. Find a girlfriend outside of work, that will keep your mind off it and keep you from getting in trouble.

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