Meeting up with Ex

Meeting up with ex tomorrow for the first time in two weeks! I know this will probably be the last time I see her for a long time and I just want to know how to handle it. I lover her to death but I know I need to let her go! Not going to lie I am hopeful she could change her mind! We have been doing long distance and she back in town for the summer.

I know this will probably be the last time I see her for a long time and I just want to know how to handle it.

First, we need know why you're meeting up, exactly.

And what led to the break-up?

Distance, fell out of love with me, GIG syndrome

Meeting up for closure since the break up happened over the phone two weeks ago.

There doesnt seem to me any reason to see her. It's over, and you need to accept that and move on. Seeing her may give you false hope she will want you back.

Well I already told her I would see her! I wanted to be civil! I’m just going to play it cool!

Just going to enjoy my day and see where it goes!!

Is this the same ex you refer to here? https://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=559650

Didn't you already turn down a request to meet her? What changed?

She messaged me and wanted it and I feel like I’m ready for it.

She told you she stopped loving you. She is seeing some one else.

Why torture yourself? Just because she asked to meet doesn't mean you are required to do so.

I presume you are hoping she says she made a terrible mistake and she wants you back.

I won’t get that!

I don't really get the purpose of meeting up with her at this point.

She has moved on, it seems. My sense is that she feels she like she owes you a conversation, but that it won't bring you the happy ending you're probably hoping for.

Yeah it went okay! I started a new thread about it!