Originally Posted by Bluemoon17
I donít know, maybe because he doesnít want to lose me now and he realises he made mistakes during our relationship.Ē
This is a very common way to justify every action you do that goes against better judgment. I can tell you that change comes in steps and can take a long time to do. If he says overnight "Ive changed" then I call BS. All he is doing is 1. Bargaining and 2. Adapting to the needs of the situation. Adapting is not a permanent change, its just temporary. If you go back, how soon before you two get back on the merry-go-round?

Your options are very simple. If you don't want to deal with this drama anymore, then you wish him well and you don't look back because you have to believe there is someone better out there. Someone you deserve. OR
You can take him back today and soon enough you will be right back to all the problems and drama you had before.

Your choice.