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Thread: Girls keeps saying she doesnt wana lose me but keeps ignoring

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    She is using you for attention, does not have feelings for you, and when she finds a new bf, she will disappear. Time to move on with your life, and I hope that you never do this again!

    She uses you for attention and free therapy.
    Last edited by Hollyj; 05-18-2019 at 09:07 PM.

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    Thanks I really appreciate your comments. It really going to help me moving on.

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    When she needed me I tried my best to console her and made her to feel good about herself. When I need at least as a friend she just doesn't care. This really hurts me

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    Originally Posted by afzaalnadee
    When she needed me I tried my best to console her and made her to feel good about herself. When I need at least as a friend she just doesn't care. This really hurts me
    You sound like a nice guy. Don't let people treat you like this.

    This was never a friendship, as she simply wanted someone to whine to. She also enjoys the attention. Friendship should not be a therapy session. Support and concern should go both ways and not be about one's problems. How draining.

    Now, block and delete. Time to find a girl who is interested in you. You have much to offer. And, no more counseling sessions.
    Last edited by Hollyj; 05-18-2019 at 10:48 PM.

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    This woman uses you for attention, OP, but obviously doesn't have any interest in dating you.

    It was not wise to move to her city for her, but that's moot now. You are wasting your time on this. Her words don't line up with her actions, so you need to stop hanging around and hoping she will suddenly do what she says she's going to and meet up with you.

    My strong suspicion? Her ex is back or she's seeing someone else and doesn't have the courage to be honest with you. She may even want to keep you around as a back-up option in case it doesn't work out. But I would be surprised if she didn't already have another guy in her life, based on the behaviour you describe.

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    If you made a sacrifice so early on, to move to her city without even talking to her about it, I have to assume that your other actions are equally "needy". I'd take some time to reflect on myself.

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    Can you move back home? It sounds like a huge misunderstanding about intentions.

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    Originally Posted by afzaalnadee
    I had a complex situation that brought me here. I had a female fried who wanted me to date her. At that time, were not in the same state and she said she doesnt wana do distance. I did one effort and sacrifice and got a job in her city. After i told her about the offer, she got excited and we had intimate conversation over the phone. Its been five months since i moved to her town but she is continuously ignoring my texts and keeps cancelling the hangout. When i asked her whats going on, she said she doesnt know if she is attracted to me and want to decide after we hangout. But she keeps cancelling since past 5 months. She also says that she doesnt wana lose me but as I am being super crazy with my emotions (Just because of her behavior) that is pushing her away. I am too puzzled and confused and dont really know what to do in this situation. I am getting all the signs that she doesnt even wana meet me now.

    she wants attention ,only say to her to contact you when she figures out her schedule to meet you.Then ,move on and never never ever ever contact this person again .

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    She was super excited when I told her about the job offer in her city.

    @misscanuck I agree with you but it just tough for me accept that fact.

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    @wiseman totally agree with with you. After having intimate conversations wit her and a decent relation with her in the past I thought she would never break my heart or leave me hanging like this

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