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Thread: My Bfís dadís cancer has turned him into an alcoholic and I donít know what to d

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    Consider attending Alanon meetings in your area. I'd suggest committing to at least 3 meetings per location before deciding whether any given group can be helpful to you. The meetings in each location are run differently. Some are more spiritually focused, others are less so. The each have different formats and cultures, so you should be able to find a group of peers who are experienced in loving someone who abuses alcohol and can help you to navigate and learn what is within your control--and what is not.

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    Your instincts are right. You should leave this situation. It is toxic and your being there makes it more toxic. Why can't you move out? Are you financially dependent on him? Worry about staying sober yourself, make sure you don't ruin your life on alcohol and alcoholics.
    Originally Posted by Habba712
    I feel like packing my bags and leaving at times but j canít turn my back on him when he is in such a mess.

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