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Thread: Is my relationship abusive, and how do I make the relationship better?

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    I think the fact that you have to ask whether the relationship is abusive is probably an indicator that something isn't quite right. "She only hit me once" is one time too many and I am certain you would give the same advice to a woman if she were in your shoes. Just because someone has hit you once so far does not mean they won't do it again.my ex bf was, for the most part, emotionally abusive and never actually "hit" me. However there is more than one way to be physically abusive. Blaming your past transgressions or behaviour on her current actions is also an indicator of abuse, and an abuser will always justify their behaviour to you and to themselves by saying that it was you that triggered it.

    I think counselling may be a good idea but you both have to be prepared to be honest with yourselves and one another. Abusers behaviour always esclates so will only get worse.

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    I understand your side and in this story I can agree with how sheís feeling or might be. You betrayed her trust when she was giving the relationship all she could to show you she loved and only wanted to be with you and you went on and started seeing this person and she will never know it was actually nothing sexual, you hurt her and the fact that sheís still hurt can only tell you just how much sheís loved you, she hasnít let go because she loves you too but both of you need to really put each otherís efforts to try to work it out if you really want to marry each other and she needs to let go, this honestly sounds so much of what Iím currently going through itís just one of the people involved is much more difficult than the other so itís difficult to actually meet in the middle, go to counseling maybe itíll help her let go of her hurt & help both of you guys

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