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Thread: Scared my new girlfriend into breaking up by banging on her windows.

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    Gold Member Rose Mosse's Avatar
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    Originally Posted by bluecastle
    She was feeling a little under the weather, wanted some time to chill, did not communicate with you in exactly the way at the exact second that you expected her to. That's going to happen againóand again and again and againóin the business of life and love. To really connect you need to be able to cope with disconnection, distress, and uncertainty with grace not aggression.
    This was so beautifully put. I wholeheartedly agree.

    Be kind to yourself, strat35. Try and be at peace. In this instance, the relationship is over. Let that go. The rest is up to you (living your life the way you feel happiest and most fulfilled).

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    You can't go banging on a ladies window like a stalker, after you have only known her for a month. You are lucky she did not call the police.

    On top of that, you are begging - and that's what women hate the most.

    Plus, this relationship sounds a little fast. That's not healthy.

    I guess you've learned some hard lessons. Hopefully.

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    In some places youíre lucky you didnít get shot. But if somebody banged on my windows and then accused me of not being home or being sick that would be the end . People just want to be sick in peace.

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    Originally Posted by Honeycomb8
    All the over the top stuff sounds like they're 14 not 50. Jeez.
    Yes, for sure.

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