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Thread: Intimacy issues - not his fault

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    Originally Posted by WithLove
    When I got home from work yesterday, BF was in the last minute of his 30 minute treadmill walk.
    Progress! Good news.

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    He has used the treadmill every day since we got it. Today I leaned down to give him a hug on the couch and he pulled me over his lap to straddle him to kiss me. I don't think he's ever done that in the over 2 years we've been together, so that kind of gave me some good feelings!

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    That is great!
    Originally Posted by WithLove
    He has used the treadmill every day since we got it. Today I leaned down to give him a hug on the couch and he pulled me over his lap to straddle him to kiss me. I don't think he's ever done that in the over 2 years we've been together, so that kind of gave me some good feelings!

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    Originally Posted by WithLove
    He has used the treadmill every day since we got it. Today I leaned down to give him a hug on the couch and he pulled me over his lap to straddle him to kiss me. I don't think he's ever done that in the over 2 years we've been together, so that kind of gave me some good feelings!
    That's progress!! Rotting for both of you ;)

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    Originally Posted by reinventmyself
    That's progress!! Rotting for both of you ;)
    Rooting, not rotting. Phone version wouldn't let me edit today :/

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    Rooting or rotting, rotating or straddling this is all very good to hear!!!

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    He has been cutting down on his portion size since the weekend. He has used the treadmill every day except Sunday (we had plans all day). And Sunday night we were intimate even involving intercourse. It wasn't long, as his body couldn't cooperate much... but the desire was there and the effort was made, and I really appreciated that.

    A friend of mine had a weight bench that she was selling on social media, but when she heard I was looking for exercise equipment, offered it to me for free. We picked up half of it yesterday and we'll get the rest tomorrow. He's really excited to use it. It has one of those supported bars that goes across with weights that go up to 150 lbs. He's really looking forward to rearranging our exercise room to accommodate all of the new equipment.

    I've been staying active although not really being as healthy in my food choices, so this week I'm motivated to get serious about it again. Someone on here recommended eating pickles when I have sugar cravings, and I'm munching on some snack-sized ones right now. It's definitely not what I want, but at least the vinegar-y taste gives my taste buds something to think about.

    I'll post more updates soon. Thank you all for following along and giving such helpful advice, and coaxing us along in this issue.

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