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    I'd tell him that I'm not running a flop house. He can afford to date, so he can afford to find another place to live. I'd give him a week to find a room to rent and be out of here, or he'll find the locks have been changed and he'll need a police escort to retrieve his stuff.

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    Thank you for those wise words. Yes the pain is overwhelming and I know I have to sort this mess out. I seem unable to rationalise what I need to do. Today I feel a bit more together so that's at least something. Love is a funny thing. Can give you the best days of your life but also the worst

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    Give him 30 days notice. You're not his mom.
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    I've been relegated to friend.the trouble is he cant afford to move out so I have to watch him go off under my nose.

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    Originally Posted by Wiseman2
    Give him 30 days notice. You're not his mom.
    Naah, 30 days would be reasonable for a reasonable 'tenant'. You don't owe someone who rubs your nose in their disloyalty 30 days of torture for YOU. He played this stupidly by breaking up before he was prepared to walk away, so he can go couch surf or use his 'date' money on a boarding room or hotel or storage cube or whatever--but that's his problem.

    He had the 30 days before HE broke up to sort out where he plans to go.

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