Originally Posted by jhs011771
Thank you for being understanding. After the response from Hollyj above, I figured I would never post anything again. I’m so glad I checked back and found your message, and I appreciate your response.
To be fair to Holly she was just telling you like it is. It can be hard to hear the truth sometimes. What you are doing is like living next to a neighbor that makes bombs in his living room and then complaining when you are injured in an explosion. When asked why you didn't move away from the dangerous neighbor you reply "We used to be really good friends"

We are not involved so we can be very pragmatic about your situation and see it really clearly, you on the other hand are so close you can't seem to focus on what is right in front of you.

You need to move away from the bomb next door!