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Thread: I [M] keep messing up and I don't know how (and if) to continue

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    Originally Posted by PurplePlank
    If you two aren't mutually exclusive she has absolutely no right to be upset that you're on a dating site. So I wouldn't say you messed up there. As for continue, I would shoot her a message and gauge how she reacts. If she's still being petty and refusing to talk to you/being mean to you, then it sounds like you've dodged a bullet with this one.
    Not 100% sure if that was what she was upset about. I'm not really feeling confident to message her after seeing her talk/flirt with other guys at the club (although they approached her).

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    Since you have something in common, try connecting on social media. As far as bars, clubs, the cold approach doesn't seem to work here. Especially since you haven't asked her out in less pressured situations. Or try a casual lunch coffee to break the ice. You need to talk to girls first before jumping in with bar/club pickups.
    Originally Posted by Nick023
    I still haven't asked her out. After the bar we went to the club. Throughout the hour that we were there, she had multiple guys that approached her and she talked with them. I didn't do anything about this, because I honestly didn't know what to do.

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    Originally Posted by Wiseman2
    Since you have something in common, try connecting on social media. As far as bars, clubs, the cold approach doesn't seem to work here. Especially since you haven't asked her out in less pressured situations. Or try a casual lunch coffee to break the ice. You need to talk to girls first before jumping in with bar/club pickups.
    I've talked to her, a lot. I've even been together in her house (see previous post).

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