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Thread: I messed up BAD, but I want to fix it.

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    She didn't used to. I know along with my problem, she has her problems. I remember there was a time before all of this and it was amazing and extremely happy. I just want to get back to that lifestyle with her. Just because we haven't been perfect lately, doesn't mean we can't get back to what we used to be. Now, after recent events that may make it hard, but it is a team and we have to be willing to work together in order to achieve our once past happiness.

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    Originally Posted by hatmessedup
    She didn't used to. I know along with my problem, she has her problems. I remember there was a time before all of this and it was amazing and extremely happy. I just want to get back to that lifestyle with her. Just because we haven't been perfect lately, doesn't mean we can't get back to what we used to be. Now, after recent events that may make it hard, but it is a team and we have to be willing to work together in order to achieve our once past happiness.
    Please realize that, despite all of your efforts to be emotionally healthy, she may still decide not to come back.

    I'd recommend having that in the back of your mind. Because if your only end goal in going through treatment is to get her back and she chooses not to, you still need to be motivated to continue because it's what's best for YOU, not necessarily you AND her.

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    Yes i recommend therapy for yourself only, not to try and get her back. A long time down the line you may have another slim chance with her but for now you need to get better FOR YOURSELF period. Don't worry about relationships etc. They will fall apart unless you treat PTSD

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