Husband would rather masterbate than have sex with me

A few months ago I started noticing that my husband was in the bed with me in it and the bed was moving and he moan but he swears he wasn't and it keeps happening like everyday he says he's not but I truly believe he is and a couple times I'd touch him and he have a erection each time. Its causing. Real problems with us and our marriage he swears he's not doing it I believe he is I don't. Understand why he don't. Want me. Help

If your punctuation is in any way reflective of your perception, I'm willing to bet dude is just readjusting and groaning while you're here thinking he's full on blowing a load.

Have you tried talking to him about it outside of the bedroom?

 

Masterbation doesnt necessarily mean disinterest.

 

Hows your communication?What does he say?

How often do you have sex? Do you both enjoy it? How is the rest of the relationship? That is the real issue, not masturbating.

Understand why he don't. Want me.

How often do you have sex? Do you both enjoy it? How is the rest of the relationship? That is the real issue, not masturbating.

I'm wiling to have sex anytime with him he's the one who would rather masterbate we got along fine untill I figured it out what he. Was doing iv asked and asked for him just want it with me he talks his self into having sex when he wants to

So lack of sex and affection is the real issue. Focus on that and consider leaving the relationship. Is he seeing someone else?