She didn't make him this way. It's the way he is. he's been a jerk all along, you are just seeing it now. Focus on yourself and your 19 y/o. Build a quality life for yourself and her.

Who is is telling you all this about his new gf? Social media? Your daughter? Delete and block him and all his people from all your social media and messaging apps. Reconnect to your friends and family and take up some new interests. Take care of your health and get a complete check up from your doctor to rule out physical causes and better treatments for the depression. Also make sure you have ongoing supportive talk therapy. Being bitter, jealous, angry and ruminating is not helping you or your daughter.
Originally Posted by NaomiKelly
For almost 20 years my ex and me were together. I suffer from depression which he couldn't cope with. We have a 19 year old daughter.