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    Boyfriend wants a sexy video

    I need some advice! My boyfriend (we are in a LDR and see each other about once a week) has asked me to send him a sexy video of me.

    I want to clarify first that Iím ok doing this and trust him. I just donít know where to start! Iím thinking along the lines of the sort of solo masturbation vids in porn.

    It would be helpful to have some advice on what to do for him really, particularly from any guys. Iím quite shy and have never done this before (we send pictures normally).

    As a guy, if you wanted your GF to send a sexy video, what would you expect and what would really turn you on? Iím thinking something along the lines of the sort of solo masturbation vids in porn.

    Any thoughts?!!

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    I think this is an area you should probably know your boyfriend much better than we would.

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    Don't do it. If you ever break up you are going to regret it BIG TIME. Things are fine now but in a few years things may change dramatically.

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    Would never do it. Breaks ups happen then your butt is shown to all his buddies and the whole internet.

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    How many times have you seen him in person?

    You should be doing this based on a good understanding of what he likes.

    Does he like lingerie?

    What sort of sexual activities does he like?

    Can you replicate that with toys?

    Bear in mind, I agree with Clio to an extent. You need to know your partner very well, and be confident he won't sell them to a porn site if you have a bust up.

    By the way, seeing each other about once per week is reasonable at the early stage of any relationship. How far apart in distance are you?

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    My advice?

    Shoot the video when together. Watch it when together.

    Pls don't send it, or sexy nudes, over the Internet, including text or email.

    It may come back and bite you in the ass, as has happened to sooooo many others, in some cases disrupting significantly or even ruining their lives.

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    DO NOT DO IT.
    Someone could accidentally see it on his phone and forward it to themselves.
    He could get hacked.
    You could break up and he could post it on the internet.
    So much bad can happen.
    Just get him excited about the next time you see eachother -- make sure a date is planned to do so.
    There are people who regret their mistakes and lose their jobs over "sexy videos"

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    This is the guy who is still active on his dating profile?

    Big fat NO in that case. He may be collecting "sexy" videos from all of his dates.

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    Thank you everyone, I appreciate your advice. There wonít be anything in the video that could identify it as being me even in the unlikely event of the worse happening.

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    No, I think youíre referring to a reply I gave in a post by someone else, that wasnít my thread

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