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Thread: Is it possible that my ex boyfriend will come back?

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    Originally Posted by avenger29
    I'm sorry, let me clarify. That incident happened a few months ago when we were still together. He was in the process of making a a big/important purchase and was on the phone for those reasons. I definitely overreacted and I know that. He just confuses me because he said that he wanted to cut ties but then he replied to my birthday message in a very caring way and is now always looking to see what Im doing on social media knowing that I can see that he is looking.
    But that's because you baited him.. you knew he wanted to cut ties but you disrespected that and messaged him anyway (regardless if it was his bday). I'm not saying this is completely your fault(not pointing fingers here or intending to make you feel bad). What I am saying is that you tested him and baited him and after he's replied, you're hoping that there's romantic interest in his reply. It doesn't work that way. Even if he does have leftover romantic feelings for you, he made his decision to end things. I wouldn't trust someone again who would do that to me. I think you're grasping at straws, so to speak. Hope you feel better soon.

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    Yeah, I get your point of view. I just did not want him to think that I hated him and like I mentioned before, I do care and wanted to send the message. I was just expecting a simple thank you or a no reply honestly. Outside of that I do not plan to contact him and have not done so on any other occasion. I am trying my best to keep busy and to move on but naturally I'm going to have my weak days like today.

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    Originally Posted by katrina1980
    He is curious that's all, I still look up my ex's on social media, it means nothing.
    Same here. It means nothing. It means I have too much time on my hands sometimes.

    I am sorry you are hurting though.

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    Originally Posted by avenger29
    Yeah, I get your point of view. I just did not want him to think that I hated him and like I mentioned before, I do care and wanted to send the message. I was just expecting a simple thank you or a no reply honestly. Outside of that I do not plan to contact him and have not done so on any other occasion. I am trying my best to keep busy and to move on but naturally I'm going to have my weak days like today.
    It's part of the grief process. It will likely take some time for the hope to fade. I would encourage you not to reach out again, though. As you can see, whether he responds or not, contacting him increases your distress.

    No one can answer your initial question. He may still have feelings for you or doubt his decision. However, it takes more than love and longing to build a sustainable relationship. It could be that he has feelings but recognizes he made the correct decision anyway. I would let things be and do your best to move on.

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