I'm very sorry to hear about your troubles. Lymphoma is cancer and I hope you make some recovery, as much as possible. This nonsense coming from your partner is the last thing you need! I'm completely appalled for you. If you have more dependable people around you, even if it's a good friend or someone you can talk to or a family member with you, it would help. I'm not sure where it is like where you are. The BC Cancer Society(for ie) and a number of services offered emotional support to me and family members during our difficult time. Don't be afraid to seek help from the right places.