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Thread: I will kill her and then kill myself, I can't take this any longer

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    OP watch this video, reading through your posts reminded me of this guy. He spoke out- you've done that, that takes real courage and you should be proud of yourself.
    Most importantly he survived! You can to, you just need a little help and I'm hoping you get that

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    Originally Posted by boltnrun
    I've been told multiple times that the site does not have access to user's IP addresses.

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    Hmm, interesting. I assumed they did which is how they catch posters with multiple accounts.

    My mistake.

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    Originally Posted by goddess
    Excuse me, but I would appreciate it if you didn't make light of this grave situation by saying that OP hasn't tried enough. And, how many times did this girl do this to you??? And suggesting that he date another woman in his state of mind is just unthinkable. Really, are you for real?
    Agree that telling someone to date is wrong.

    But confirming his belief that hes a victim of her and he has no way out is just going to make things worse.

    He can get away from her. Look at his words, hes angry because he chooses to go back and she hurts him, this idea that shes supernatural and somehow above the law is in his head and he needs to recognize that, in his mind he has created this insidious individual, by labeling her a narcissist who is above the law, he doesn't have to take any responsibility for himself. He snapped and believes his emotional situation is all her fault. This is why I'm such a huge advocate of taking personal responsibility. It causes me to be hated by a lot of posters, but it avoids full blown labeling exes narcissists that need to be murdered... extreme case, but as we see it happens.

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    She knows things about me that will expose in public if I leave her . She will try to make a story of me hitting her and go to the cops , or even tell them about rape .
    This is the stuff to report to the police as blackmail. File for a restraining order, which protects you from anything she reports, because you've already notified them of her threats. She will be investigated and potentially charged with blackmail or any number of things. Save her messages and turn over those.

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    Originally Posted by boltnrun
    I've been told multiple times that the site does not have access to user's IP addresses.

    OP, please go to the ER and tell them you are suicidal. They will help you.
    Yes, we do have access to IP addresses.

    This thread is being dealt with. Thank you all...

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    Update : I have left my house , packed some things , contacted my lawyer and explained the situation , he will speak to the landlord and explain him how things are . I haven't gone to the cops or the ER yet , I'm moving in to a trusted friend of mine. I have started to calm down a bit since I haven't seen her for two days now. Last time I saw her she did play a mind game on me , but that's another story.

    What are my further steps? I have more brain clarity right now and can think rationally

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    It appears you're heading in the right direction. Please keep us posted.

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    She told me that if I go to the police she will accuse me of rape. I have said everything to my lawyer and he's gonna make arrangements. Probably I'll have to meet her soon with her lawyer too. I don't want to though, this will halt the process of me moving on, again....

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    Should I tell her that I don't give a fck about her going public with whatever information she has on me in an attempt to make her powerless? Or leave it like that?

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    How is she going to prove rape? They do rape kits.

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