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i like my coworker who has been a good friend of my these past few months


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So i have feelings for a woman i work with at the resort i work at, who has become a good friend of mine in the past few months we've known and worked with each other, but I afraid to tell her my feelings as i'm not sure what her response will be and i wouldn't want our friendship to get ruined as well. We've hung out outside of work numerous times, shes even slept at my house a few times due to her living on the resort property thats pretty remote and in the mountains so she slept at my house to get away and hang out a few times on our mutual days off.

 

Any advice?, I really want to tell her and see if something great can possibly happen but i'm afraid to.

 

Thanks

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You have excellent instincts. You should be "afraid of telling her your feelings" for 2 reasons. She is a coworker and it's creepy and awkward to announce a crush like that, not to mention the workplace is not a singles bar and you need to be careful about sexual harassment issues. Stop 'hanging out with sleepovers' as friends.

i have feelings for a woman i work with. I afraid to tell her my feelings.
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Oh brother, I don;t even know where to begin with this.

 

First of all, dating coworkers can cause problems. But most people won't listen to that advice so....

 

You don't tell a woman your feelings - you kiss them, lol - google "nice guy". You have a lot of reading to do.

 

And if you are afraid of hurting the friendship, why not keep her as a friend and date other women? Is she the last woman in the world? You work at a resort - you should be able to meet plenty of women.

 

You can only have one lover (supposed to) but there is no limit to the amount of friends you can have!

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