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Thread: i like my coworker who has been a good friend of my these past few months

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    i like my coworker who has been a good friend of my these past few months

    So i have feelings for a woman i work with at the resort i work at, who has become a good friend of mine in the past few months we've known and worked with each other, but I afraid to tell her my feelings as i'm not sure what her response will be and i wouldn't want our friendship to get ruined as well. We've hung out outside of work numerous times, shes even slept at my house a few times due to her living on the resort property thats pretty remote and in the mountains so she slept at my house to get away and hang out a few times on our mutual days off.

    Any advice?, I really want to tell her and see if something great can possibly happen but i'm afraid to.

    Thanks

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    Ask her out!
    Chances are, she might be wondering how to tell you how she feels. Just make sure you are clear about it being a date. Dunno how, Fancy restaurant?

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    You have excellent instincts. You should be "afraid of telling her your feelings" for 2 reasons. She is a coworker and it's creepy and awkward to announce a crush like that, not to mention the workplace is not a singles bar and you need to be careful about sexual harassment issues. Stop 'hanging out with sleepovers' as friends.
    Originally Posted by thatdevilsblue
    i have feelings for a woman i work with. I afraid to tell her my feelings.

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    Oh brother, I don;t even know where to begin with this.

    First of all, dating coworkers can cause problems. But most people won't listen to that advice so....

    You don't tell a woman your feelings - you kiss them, lol - google "nice guy". You have a lot of reading to do.

    And if you are afraid of hurting the friendship, why not keep her as a friend and date other women? Is she the last woman in the world? You work at a resort - you should be able to meet plenty of women.

    You can only have one lover (supposed to) but there is no limit to the amount of friends you can have!

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    shes actually the one who asked to sleep over/hang out those fews times

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    Ask her on an actual date. Make sure to be clear it is a date. Don't talk about your feelings. You may be friend zoned and don't even realize it.

    If she says no, not a big deal. Say OK and move on. Business as usual.


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