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Thread: What to do after going out with colleagues?

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    Do not ask her for a date at work!!!

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    You didn't go out with her, so there is nothing to do.

    She could have possibly wanted to have sex, that ship has sailed. Move on, leave her alone.

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    Originally Posted by boltnrun
    Do not ask her for a date at work!!!
    Why? Asking her through WhatsApp seems too easy, plus I'd like to ask her face to face

    Originally Posted by Sportster2005
    You didn't go out with her, so there is nothing to do.

    She could have possibly wanted to have sex, that ship has sailed. Move on, leave her alone.
    I don't think she did, she's not that type of girl.

    Why do I need to leave her alone? It's not like I'm stalking her, I haven't even asked her yet. What is wrong with asking?

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    You can call her or walk her to her car after work and ask her out then, doing it in the office setting may be awkward.

    Just don't wait to long or she may think you just want to be friends and aren't that into her.

    Give her a call this evening and ask her out. Keep it simple and light.

    Let us know how it goes.

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    Originally Posted by Nick023
    Why? Asking her through WhatsApp seems too easy, plus I'd like to ask her face to face



    I don't think she did, she's not that type of girl.

    Why do I need to leave her alone? It's not like I'm stalking her, I haven't even asked her yet. What is wrong with asking?
    A better choice of words would be 'leave it alone'. It's not about right or wrong. There is nothing immoral about dating a co-worker. It's just a really bad idea that more often ends with awkwardness at best, and lawsuits at worst. Think about your job and professionalism. There't billions of other women out there to choose from.

    If she's not that type of girl, you shouldn't be asking if it was a mistake not making a move. Personally you don't know what type they are until you make an advance. Same with men. Most people don't advertise. Most, not all.

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