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    Just read my post above and it has some spelling issues so Iím correcting and reposting because the timeframe to edit has come and gone!

    Having been through other break ups I know I will survive not talking to my ex again. I am not one to have friendships or any form or relationships with an ex - it just isn't healthy for either party and when the time comes that one of us is in a relationship it isn't fair to our partners. For those reasons I steer clear of my exes.

    BUT it still sucks right now knowing that I am only 16 days into never speaking to her again (well, I guess the last correspondence was text so I am 16 days into not contacting her and 30 days into not speaking to her). It's just so sad knowing this...

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    Originally Posted by thinkstoohard
    Hi Deciduous. Thank you for the reply!

    You nailed it in your response! I have been in therapy for many years (not continuous) but unfortunately we never got to the "cause" of my relationship cycles. Lucky for me the therapist I started seeing in January is great and we are tackling everything you mention and then some head on! As mush as I hate it, I am somewhat happy to have this breakup as it is forcing me to finally learn about myself at a deeper level and to help me not pick the wrong woman when I do decide to date again. It's a scary journey since it is making me give myself a real hard look, but one I am excited about!
    Hi T.T.H.

    Bless ya. It sounds like you are on the right path with the right therapist...

    I completely understand that it's very early days (just 16 days) and this is the part where all you can think about is the immediate loss and just how much hurts. My heart goes out to ya and wish you well over the next difficult few weeks/months. We've all been there and the pain is shocking to start off with (as you already know)..but there will be a time when you can begin to think, sift through things and begin to rebuild/imagine something better in the future. I hope you don't have to wait too long for it.

    Wishing you the best

    Decixxx

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    in many respects dogs are much better than people. first and foremost they wont break your heart.
    what's happening with your dog? are you getting it back?
    anyways, back to your ex.....ok she accepts no responsibility and wont apologise. I know someone exactly like that. good riddance to her man.
    make sure you get your dog back though. I would hunt anyone down who took a dog of mine.
    good luck.

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    Originally Posted by TeddyPSmith
    I wish that therapists started with questions like these. I like your style
    Many thanks, TeddyP

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