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    You baby your little sister. Why on earth do you care if she zips it?!

    Give her some independence and then maybe sheíll learn to do it!

    BTW, you arenít her caretaker. Your aunt and uncle are.

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    I care because I don't want her getting soaked of course!

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    If she can do it up she will. If it is cold enough or wet enough she will do it up.

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    That's the problem though Seraphim, she can do it herself but wants me to do it.

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    Originally Posted by Ciara2015
    That's the problem though Seraphim, she can do it herself but wants me to do it.
    So you just donít do it. If she gets wet she does. She will learn quick enough to do up her own . Sheís just playing you like a fiddle. If she gets wet oh well itís called natural consequence . She wonít expire from getting a little rain on her.

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    Then she gets her school uniform wet which is why I like it zipped. I've even tried rewarding her when she does it but that doesn't even work.

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    Originally Posted by Ciara2015
    Then she gets her school uniform wet which is why I like it zipped. I've even tried rewarding her when she does it but that doesn't even work.
    Youíre babying her.

    Thatís why she wants you to do it.

    Let her grow up and stop helicoptering.

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    If her uniform gets wet it does. Oh well. When she is wet she will do her coat up. Never do for a child what they can do for them selves .

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    I understand that Seraphim but I just find it easier than having to listen to her moaning that she wants me to do it.

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    Originally Posted by Ciara2015
    I understand that Seraphim but I just find it easier than having to listen to her moaning that she wants me to do it.
    Then you will be doing things for her forever . The purpose of parenting is to create independent beings not caving in to whining.

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