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    OP, you have been asked several times if divorce is possible in your culture and you seem to ignore it time and time again. We don't know how it works in your culture, so it would be very helpful if you could clarify a number of things for us. From my point of view, the only answer to your entire situation would be to file for divorce and move on with your life. I cannot for the life of me understand WHY anyone would stay in this loveless, cold, empty and meaningless "marriage". What's the point? Serious question.

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    Are you expected to bear his children, have a family? Is he gay?
    Originally Posted by sumithra
    After six months of marriage, still being unconsummated

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    Originally Posted by Wiseman2
    Are you expected to bear his children, have a family? Is he gay?
    No, he is not gay but he says he doesnt have feelings for me as i have some weaknesses (sensitive, emotional) that he doesnt like.

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    Originally Posted by sumithra
    No, he is not gay but he says he doesnt have feelings for me as i have some weaknesses (sensitive, emotional) that he doesnt like.
    Do you really have a weakness for being emotional and sensitive?
    Or it is it that he doesn't want to acknowledge he's hurt you?
    Be careful not to take on the blame for a marriage that has started off poorly.

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    Originally Posted by reinventmyself
    Do you really have a weakness for being emotional and sensitive?
    Or it is it that he doesn't want to acknowledge he's hurt you?
    Be careful not to take on the blame for a marriage that has started off poorly.
    Yes am a bit sensitive. But i did try my things in this marriage to show my affection. We had taken this up with either of our parents. He feels bad about it now. I feel I have taken an extra step by approaching parents and feel bit over guilty to put our private life in front of them. I feel awkward. But i had no choice. They say its we both who have to understand and take a step. I say I will start being friends with him and the affection part from me should come naturally this time. Till now I have thought it was due to his reserved nature he was like that. But after knowing this i dont feel like making moves (feel uncomfortable in thinking so). I told him lets be firends and understand eachother. I pray it goes fine!!

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