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Thread: I fear Iím going to get dumped today

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    Originally Posted by figureitout23
    Im with the OPer what the heck does the dog have to do with his issue?

    Good lord...
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    Uh, itís why his girlfriend is mad at him?

    So it is literally the entire issue?

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    Originally Posted by mustlovedogs
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    Uh, itís why his girlfriend is mad at him?

    So it is literally the entire issue?
    The issue itself is after a ty week for us, this has added fuel to an already burning dumpster fire. Iím completely secure in my decision to go out knowing my pet was attended to and capable of going the night without me.

    The issue is I donít think the barrage of complications for us over the last few days is reason enough to end the relationship.

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    People here have no business judging your decisions about how you care for your dog.

    I believe you are very insecure about this relationship based on your previous post... so yes, you gf doesnt approve of you leaving your pet alone overnight. But she is only your gf and people can disagree on important things and still be compatible in others.

    You believe you're getting dumped over this ,when you know there are other issues at hand.

    You are just trying to over analyze everything she tells you now and making yourself more anxious in the process.

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    "People here have no business judging your decisions about how you care for your dog."

    We absolutely can!

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    Mod Note...Please keep replies at a respectful level.

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    OP, if 85% of your post is about a dog, then I assume the dog is relevant

    Without more information, if the dog isnít relevant, thereís no more advice we can offer.

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    Originally Posted by Hollyj
    "People here have no business judging your decisions about how you care for your dog."

    We absolutely can!
    The issue is he thinks he's getting dumped... Yes, the gf doesnt approve of that... my point was there are other issues in this relationship based on OPs other post.

    I am a dog owner/mom. My dog can be left alone overnight no problem if need be. Other dogs cant. Only Op knows his dog well enough... not you

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    Originally Posted by figureitout23
    Im with the OPer what the heck does the dog have to do with his issue?

    Good lord...
    I agree with FIO too

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    Originally Posted by Afireblue
    I agree with FIO too
    Thanks for the support on this. My initial query has far been overlooked for the treatment of my dog. I can be understanding of the critique after my first post, but even after providing some clarification Iím still the antagonist. The medium of the initial post is the exact same as the other posts where I have cleared some points up. It looks like people are willing to pick and choose any information which creates their desired narrative

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    Originally Posted by Sourmilk
    The issue itself is after a ty week for us, this has added fuel to an already burning dumpster fire. Iím completely secure in my decision to go out knowing my pet was attended to and capable of going the night without me.

    The issue is I donít think the barrage of complications for us over the last few days is reason enough to end the relationship.
    Ok, if you insist that youíre providing all the relevant details (per your most recent post)...

    Then what are they?

    Because all I see is still the dog detail.

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