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    "My sister in-law who is her best friend wrote on Facebook and said that if anyone causes problems she will kick their ass".

    Classy!

    Your wife is abusive, controlling and unreasonable. You need to get a divorce! You are doing a disservice to your kids by staying in this toxic environment.

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    Thank you all for the feedback this is still difficult for me and I feel terrible that I allowed this to happen for so long. I am afraid to talk more about this with my wife and am not sure if family counseling will work. Itís hard to just call it quits and leave my kids even though I know itís best. I just am really struggling trying to get out how I feel and what I need because she is so good at turning things around and making them my fault or trying to get me to see her way or reasoning like I donít care about her. Iíve never struggled so much with anything in my life.

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    Originally Posted by SeanGravel
    Thank you all for the feedback this is still difficult for me and I feel terrible that I allowed this to happen for so long. I am afraid to talk more about this with my wife and am not sure if family counseling will work. Itís hard to just call it quits and leave my kids even though I know itís best. I just am really struggling trying to get out how I feel and what I need because she is so good at turning things around and making them my fault or trying to get me to see her way or reasoning like I donít care about her. Iíve never struggled so much with anything in my life.
    It is not about ď leaving your kids ď. Get yourself a lawyer right away and apply for custody . This woman is not sane . You may love her but you can be rest assured she does not love you . She doesnít even know that what that means .

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    I feel like there is hope but I know she wonít budge and I donít know what to do. Am I wrong not to honor how she feels or is that just being manipulated for so long that I just am going along with it. I canít seem to win in any conversation because she always knows how to make me feel bad or make me feel like I am wrong.

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    Originally Posted by SeanGravel
    I feel like there is hope but I know she wonít budge and I donít know what to do. Am I wrong not to honor how she feels or is that just being manipulated for so long that I just am going along with it. I canít seem to win in any conversation because she always knows how to make me feel bad or make me feel like I am wrong.
    I 100 % guarantee you this will never get better and I 100% guarantee you that this is not love .
    There is zero hope in this situation .

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    Look up cycle of abuse pictures . I will guarantee you your whole life is there .

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    I feel terrible for my family and parents that they have suffered so long and I allowed it.

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    Originally Posted by SeanGravel
    I feel terrible for my family and parents that they have suffered so long and I allowed it.
    You can fix this . But you will have to leave her . I am telling you you need to find an attorney right quick . And follow their advice . Document document document document everything .

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    Thank you for your help. I needed everything that everyone said even the blunt ones because yes this is my fault too. I have an attorney Iím just scared to pull the trigger on this itís so damn hard.

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    Iíll check it out now thank you

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