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    Platinum Member SherrySher's Avatar
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    A huge part of being a good partner is taking care of your partner in every sense possible.

    Cherishing them. Do you not know how hard it is to find a decent person to be with and date? This entire forum is full of people desperately wanting proper love and cannot find it.
    It also means that you are more than happy to have someone like them, that no one else comes on the radar, especially not escorts.

    And lastly, you protect them. Protect their heart from pain and hurt and protect their bodies from harm such as STDs that you might be getting from escorts.

    I could go on,but I have a very hard time believing that you've got any of these things for you girlfriend if you're willing to risk it all for a quick romp with a prostitute.

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    So are you just trolling rather than catfishing now?
    Originally Posted by boogy86
    I am not the boyfriend, you guys are off the rails now.

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    Originally Posted by boogy86
    I am not the boyfriend wiseman, you guys are off the rails now.
    Like I said "(or not)"

    I was just saying to not be so agrresive in your advice on what she should do.
    We have a very capable mod team here that will certainly tell us when we are breaking any rules.

    The thing is, what Wiseman posted is the most likely scenario which the OP should be aware of may happen... especially if they don't get the couples counseling they most likely will need to get them back on track. They need relationship boundary advice if nothing else.

    and protect their bodies from harm such as STDs that you might be getting from escorts.
    Well, the truth of that matter is that escorts will not partake in sex without a condom so one has more chance of catching something from a hookup from the local bar/club then with an escort. Back ally prostitutes, not so much.

    I do agree with the rest of your post, Sherry.

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    OP, I think you are going to learn the hard way that a truly good man doesn't need to "fight for" the relationship like this, because he doesn't jeopardize the relationship in such a way that would necessitate him needing to "fight for" anything.

    You two are at the beginning of a terribly bumpy road ahead.

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