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Thread: My gf wants to go clubbing without me after she got high last time

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    My gf wants to go clubbing without me after she got high last time

    The thing is, my gf likes partying a lot. Last time she went to club with friends, but without me (i am not really into going to clubs, i like alcohol, but with close friends ONLY at home or on fresh air) she took something called MDMA and she let another guy touch her. When she told me that, I freaked out, but she promised me several times she will not do that ever again. She said that she was high then and couldn't say no because of that, but that guy literally was touching her downthere. I forgave her, but she wants to go out without me again. I am scared. What should we do with our relationship? I am not sure if I trust her anymore. She goes to those freaking places wearing skimpy clothes and I am hella jealous. She keeps telling me she loves partying too much to stop and she will be careful now.

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    Platinum Member reinventmyself's Avatar
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    How old are the both of you?

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    We are both 20

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    Why would you want to be with someone who takes illicit drugs and then lets a strange guy touch her intimately?

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    Well, some young women like to party and are not ready for love yet. You might have to find a woman who is more mature.

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    You two are incompatible where this is concerned.
    She will resent you if you try to stop her.
    And you will be miserable if she continues.

    This is who she is and you get to decide if this works for you or not.

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    She's clubbing and doing hardcore ecstacy.
    I'd tell her to get lost.. especially when I was your age.


    I've seen the results of ecstacy first hand from my friend. Those highs come with unbearable lows. Anger, resentment, depression, etc.

    Move on.

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    What's up with guys having such a low self respect these days?
    I'd nope myself out of there. Staying will just give her a green light to continue her behavior.

    She basically cheated on you and you do nothing?

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    Nothing good can come out of this. I'd quit while I'm ahead.

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    I'm heartbroken, but you guys are just right. I guess I deserve somone better than her even if it'll take some time to move on

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