cache Posted March 19, 2019 Share Posted March 19, 2019 If your girlfriend that your staying with repeatedly threatens to kick you out when she noes i have nowere else to go, on a daily basis at least 4 times a week. what is this called? she gets mad at every little thing I do I can't even be myself because something is always a problem to her and after she says the stuff she says and threatens to kick me out directly & indirectly she expects me to be fine and act normal and if I don't act normal and fine she threatens me again and says why am I here etc etc then finds an excuse for the way she acts when it aint justifiyable.. then she claims she loves me am confused any advice? Link to comment
Seraphim Posted March 20, 2019 Share Posted March 20, 2019 It would be time to look for a new place to live and break up . Link to comment
RedDress Posted March 20, 2019 Share Posted March 20, 2019 It’s called «the end of the relationship». If you are yelling at each other and being threatened multiple times a day, it is not salvageable. This is not a mature relationship between two mature and responsible adults. Link to comment
JA0371 Posted March 20, 2019 Share Posted March 20, 2019 This is called emotional and mental abuse I went through it a nd it’s horrible. You have options. Are you currently working? If so start saving money for a place and give her a specific time that you will be moving out or if you can find a temporary roomate. She can’t hold you hostage if you have options. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted March 20, 2019 Share Posted March 20, 2019 Why would you remain in this situation? Find another place. Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted March 20, 2019 Share Posted March 20, 2019 It's called the end of a relationship. If your girlfriend that your staying with repeatedly threatens to kick you out when she noes i have nowere else to go, Where did you live before her? Link to comment
LDJ Posted March 20, 2019 Share Posted March 20, 2019 She is power tripping because she is a bully in a position of control over you. For you it is called being a doormat because you allow it to continue instead of removing yourself from the situation. Nobody can take advantage of you without your permission. Love is communicated by actions not words. Link to comment
Keyman Posted March 20, 2019 Share Posted March 20, 2019 what is this called? It's called, 'not getting the message'. She doesn't want you there anymore. There has to be a reason why she doesn't want you there and tells you so regularly. Without knowing more of the situation, it's hard to give a more concise response. Why do you not have anywhere else to go? Are you working? Are you a mouche? Do you help out around the house? Did you turn up and just not leave? Link to comment
RayofLighten Posted March 20, 2019 Share Posted March 20, 2019 She doesn't want to live with you. threatening to kick you out several times a day is a pretty clear sign. Link to comment
catfeeder Posted March 20, 2019 Share Posted March 20, 2019 She feels pressured to let you stay there and resents you for it. I would contact social services to learn what shelters may be available and get out of this woman's home. Link to comment
Gary Snyder Posted March 20, 2019 Share Posted March 20, 2019 1) She's got a power trip because her love level for you has gone down and she hasn't got that much to loose if you leave. This is assuming she was not this way in the beginning. 2) Either that or she has mental issues. If it's one, you have to find out why her love level for you went down - you probably let her down in one of these areas - romance, affection, trust, or respect. If you did not take her for granted, cut off romance and affection (but not respect and trust). When she asks, "what's wrong", then she'll be ready to listen to you and change. Link to comment
Annia Posted March 20, 2019 Share Posted March 20, 2019 It's called abuse. You need to find a new place to leave and break up for your own good. Do you have family around that can help you? Or social services? Link to comment
cache Posted March 21, 2019 Author Share Posted March 21, 2019 It's called the end of a relationship. Where did you live before her? at my nanas. she doesnt want me there so i moved in with my girlfriend Link to comment
catfeeder Posted March 21, 2019 Share Posted March 21, 2019 at my nanas. she doesnt want me there so i moved in with my girlfriend I'd renegotiate with Nana. Link to comment
boltnrun Posted March 21, 2019 Share Posted March 21, 2019 at my nanas. she doesnt want me there so i moved in with my girlfriend Do you have a job? Do you pay rent and/or bills at your girlfriend's place? Did you pay rent at your Nana's? Why didn't Nana want you there anymore? Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted March 21, 2019 Share Posted March 21, 2019 You need to find your own place. Share a house, roommates, parents, friends, family. Where did you live before? You know it's toxic and you're in control of getting out and staying out.If your girlfriend that your staying with repeatedly threatens to kick you out when she noes i have nowere else to go Link to comment
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