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    question on problem with girlfriend and they way she treats me

    If your girlfriend that your staying with repeatedly threatens to kick you out when she noes i have nowere else to go, on a daily basis at least 4 times a week. what is this called? she gets mad at every little thing I do I can't even be myself because something is always a problem to her and after she says the stuff she says and threatens to kick me out directly & indirectly she expects me to be fine and act normal and if I don't act normal and fine she threatens me again and says why am I here etc etc then finds an excuse for the way she acts when it aint justifiyable.. then she claims she loves me am confused any advice?

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    It would be time to look for a new place to live and break up .

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    It’s called «the end of the relationship».

    If you are yelling at each other and being threatened multiple times a day, it is not salvageable. This is not a mature relationship between two mature and responsible adults.

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    This is called emotional and mental abuse I went through it a nd it’s horrible. You have options. Are you currently working? If so start saving money for a place and give her a specific time that you will be moving out or if you can find a temporary roomate. She can’t hold you hostage if you have options.

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    Why would you remain in this situation? Find another place.

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    It's called the end of a relationship.

    Originally Posted by cache
    If your girlfriend that your staying with repeatedly threatens to kick you out when she noes i have nowere else to go,
    Where did you live before her?

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    She is power tripping because she is a bully in a position of control over you.

    For you it is called being a doormat because you allow it to continue instead of removing yourself from the situation.

    Nobody can take advantage of you without your permission.

    Love is communicated by actions not words.

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    Originally Posted by cache
    what is this called?
    It's called, 'not getting the message'. She doesn't want you there anymore.

    There has to be a reason why she doesn't want you there and tells you so regularly. Without knowing more of the situation, it's hard to give a more concise response. Why do you not have anywhere else to go? Are you working? Are you a mouche? Do you help out around the house? Did you turn up and just not leave?

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    She doesn't want to live with you. threatening to kick you out several times a day is a pretty clear sign.

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    She feels pressured to let you stay there and resents you for it. I would contact social services to learn what shelters may be available and get out of this woman's home.

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