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Thread: I made a mistake

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    Platinum Member SherrySher's Avatar
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    One of these days you'll meet someone who will love you telling her those kinds of things.

    Don't give up.

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    If my hubby sent me that, I'd love it. You just sent it to the wrong girl. There's a lady out there that would love it. But save it for someone you've met in person, and have kissed already.

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    The right girl would appreciate it. Keep on being who you are.

    Did you meet her in person?

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    I agree with Sherry, bunnie, and Holly. I think it's sweet too & I'd love it.

    Don't give up. Somewhere out there is the right person for you.

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    I'm VERY confused as to why, if the interest was really mutual, she stopped talking to you after you said something romantic like that? Don't be embarrassed. Yes, it's a little cheesy, but we're all a little cheesy when we have to be romantic, but as others have already said, it was sweet, also. My response to her reaction is, "What's wrong with her?!" because if a guy I liked said that to me, I'd be smiling all day; a FEW days, even. Either she didn't like you as much as you thought she did, or she doesn't like lines that sound "typical" like that, but if she really did like you, I don't think she would have stopped talking to you. It's sad that you even had to apologize for saying something nice to a girl you think likes you! It sounds so strange just thinking up that sentence as I'm typing it.

    But my advice is, for your own closure, don't feel like you look desperate contacting her one more time to see what's up. You're a man - go after the woman you want! Say what's on your mind about this, like what you're thinking to us but to her instead and see what she says, if anything. The only way to stop those thoughts at night that go on in your mind about the what if's is to be honest about your thoughts and feelings; is putting your heart on your sleeve. You have to risk it all to be able to move forward. Her response will let you know whether the situation should be closed or not. And if she says nothing, then it's a no-go, but you probably knew that already.

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    How well did you know this girl in person?

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    'If a guy sent me that, and I liked him, I would have liked it. It's not what you said, it's that it came from the wrong person, for her. She doesn't like you like that. Sorry.'

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    Agree. From someone you don't fancy in the slightest - ugh, cringe. From someone you're totally into: awww sweeetneeessss.

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    If she thought he was cool and really liked him, she would have loved what he said! I say mushy stuff like that sometimes......... but I'm funny and masculine, 6 feet tall with a deep dark radio-type voice and could get away with murder!

    I thought what he said was very nice-nice! - see what I mean?!

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    I think its cute. Im sorry she didnt appreciate that.
    You should find someone who will.

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