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Thread: Do I have a right to get upset about my boyfriend doing this?

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    Thank you so much.

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    Thank you for the advice. Noted. :)

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    Thank you so much for all of that advice, Iíll definitely look at the videos. Thank you for understanding. :)

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    Hereís the deal. You trust him or you donít. You chose to take him back after he broke up with you. Heís showing you who he IS now...so either you can handle it or you canít. You wonít change him and NO, you cannot dictate who he is or not friends with. All you have is control over YOU and your actions. If this guy likes every hot girls pic on social media doesnít mean heís talking to her or sleeping with her. Itís an emoji. Period. This issue is ultimately about YOU.....your self worth, self esteem and trust issues. Address that first....and your answers will be much simpler.

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    Originally Posted by Jask2019
    Thank you so much for all of that advice, Iíll definitely look at the videos. Thank you for understanding. :)
    No problem! Yes, please do watch the videos; they are super helpful. Don't feel mean or immature for voicing your concerns; you will only regret not doing so. And the thing about loyalty, some people need to be taught that because I've discovered with my own experiences how people can be so clueless about it, and one of the best ways to do it is to put them in their place with how I said ask them how they would feel if they were you in the situation. REALLY paint that picture for them. But after that, if they still try to say it's just you and don't want to change and it's a deal breaker type situation, you have to show them the door out of your life because keeping them is a form of disrespecting yourself. It's ok for men to have female friends, but not when it's a group of girls like this where you feel that they like him. If you feel it, they most likely do, especially that girl with the sweater. Do these girls know about you? That he has a gf? My own example - when I know a guy likes me that I don't like, that makes me uncomfortable because it's just not mutual and I don't want to make them think I do, so I choose, without anyone having to ask me, to distance myself. So if it were a GROUP of guys and I have a bf? I would DEF keep my distance. Be friendly, only be around them if I have to, while keeping my distance both emotionally and physically.

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