Boyfriend keeps cheating on me

[SeniorCitize]

My boyfriend (he's in his mid 60s) keeps cheating on me with his ex wife. He was married to her for 37 years and got divorced about 2 years ago. He sneaks off and goes to the casino with her. He claims they are not going on a date, but just carpooling together, even though the drive is an hour each way. Last night I also discovered he snuck off for a 3 day weekend with his ex wife (3rd time I've caught him doing this in 9 months) to go out of state to visit their adult sons. This last time, his one son spent the night at his girlfriend's apartment while my boyfriend and his ex were alone together the whole 3 nights. What do I do? I'm devastated.

[~Seraphim ~]

Why bother staying?

[Hollyj]

Very easy solution: dump him.

I do not understand why you stick around?

[melancholy123]

This is so obvious! Dump his cheating ass and then take some time to figure out why you were putting up with him!

[MissCanuck]

You leave him and find someone who isn't still attached to their ex in this manner.

[SarahLancaster]

Why exactly is he still your boyfriend?

[katrina1980]

Yeah, answer is obvious. At least to most people.

Wondering OP, why is it not obvious to you? Serious question.

I gather from your moniker you're a bit older and one would assume not inexperienced.

Causes one to wonder if this thread is even real.

[LC8328]

Caught him 3 times in 9 months...goodness. Please get out of this relationship. Don't settle for someone who is perfectly willing to deceive you and not give you the love you deserve.

[SeniorCitize]

Yes, it's real. I'm 62 and before dating my current boyfriend, it had been years & years since I dated. He gives me excuses that his ex's car isn't in the best shape to travel that distance by herself or that she gets lost easily. Also, he told me that his son's want to see their mom, that my boyfriend takes her so they can see her.

[IAmFCA]

Yes, it's real. I'm 62 and before dating my current boyfriend, it had been years & years since I dated. He gives me excuses that his ex's car isn't in the best shape to travel that distance by herself or that she gets lost easily. Also, he told me that his son's want to see their mom, that my boyfriend takes her so they can see her.

Whatever he is doing, he remains unavailable to you. He has not earned bf status.