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Thread: Boyfriend keeps cheating on me

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    I suspect that you stay with him out of fear of scarcity.

    You fear that, at your age, men are scarce, so this cheating a-hole is better than nothing. So you choose to believe him when he whitewashes over the truth, because he's so "good" to you, and so "sweet", and he "treats you so well". Am I close?

    I'm close to your age (just turned 57!) so I get it.

    I can tell you one thing, and I'll repeat it forever: It's better to be alone and at least open for a good guy than closed up with a jerk. You are in the latter category now, and I highly recommend you change that.

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    And you keep staying with him.

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    Why wasn't the first time enough of an answer for you?

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    He does treat me very well. The only problem is when his ex is involved.

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    No he doesnt treat you well if he cheats on you, and multiple times. I'd rather be alone than with someone like that. You wont get any sympathy here, you get good sound advice instead.

    The problem isnt his ex, it's him. He's the cheater.

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    Originally Posted by SeniorCitize
    He does treat me very well. The only problem is when his ex is involved.
    He treats you well until his penis is inside his ex.

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    He says he didn't have sex with her during the last years of their marriage, why would he all of a sudden have sex with her now.

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    Originally Posted by SeniorCitize
    He says he didn't have sex with her during the last years of their marriage, why would he all of a sudden have sex with her now.
    You've still never responded to any of us.

    Not one single person on this board will engage you in your discussion of why he does this or that with her.

    What we will do, until you stop us, is ask you: Why are you staying with him?

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    Because I love him and have fun with him. He has a kind heart. Maybe too kind, when his ex is involved. I keep telling him that he needs to cut the apron strings to her.

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    Originally Posted by SeniorCitize
    Yes, it's real. I'm 62 and before dating my current boyfriend, it had been years & years since I dated. He gives me excuses that his ex's car isn't in the best shape to travel that distance by herself or that she gets lost easily. Also, he told me that his son's want to see their mom, that my boyfriend takes her so they can see her.
    You would rather be with a lying cheat than be on your own? I don't get that! It's sad.

    You do realize he still loves his wife, and not you?

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