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Thread: Itís been 4 months now. Did I do the right thing?

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    Originally Posted by Hollyj
    Then do it! Why wouldn't you? Are you hoping for a reconciliation?
    I am trying to figure out why I haven't done it already. It's like I am holding on to something. It has crossed my mind that she might of changed but then I have to remind myself that if she;s not changed after 2 years & 30 break ups it's highly unlikely although she did apologise at first & said that she had realised she had been an idiot. But, in the next breath she said "you're not perfect but you tried" this immediately rang alarm bells!

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    Originally Posted by mangan
    I do logically know that this would of just carried on & on if I didn't stop it when I did. It has taken me a lot of work to get to the stage where I did stop it. I have been no contact now since before Christmas 2018. This is good for me as previously I couldn't ignore her.

    If I look from the outside & imagine my friend was going through the same I would have told him to get rid ages ago but when it came to me I found it so difficult.
    Stick to it. The longer you go, the easier it gets.

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    You really think she has morphed into a decent human being? This is who she is, as she showed you from the beginning- she broke up with you more than twice a month.

    Damn, what the hell does she have to do! Are you afraid of eventually finding a pleasant, loving woman?

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    Originally Posted by Hollyj
    You really think she has morphed into a decent human being? This is who she is, as she showed you from the beginning- she broke up with you more than twice a month.

    Damn, what the hell does she have to do! Are you afraid of eventually finding a pleasant, loving woman?
    I know she will never change it is how she is.

    Yes I am afraid that I wont find anyone else & that's probably part of the problem

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    Under review.

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