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Thread: Will he ever come back? (Male advice would be EXTRA appreciated)

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    Don't blame this on yourself. He was looking to break up and found an exit. It's a blessing. No one needs a moody, angry heavy drinker with mental issues in their lives. You are lucky he left and wise to stay away. There is much better out there for you.

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    Originally Posted by Daisi215
    This is kinda a long story, but I guess all relationship stories tend to be like this. We were dating for almost a year.
    So, you want some male advice. You've been dating for just less than a year, and is dealing with all of this drama. What makes you think that this is the right person for you? No offense, but have you been with any quality men in the past? I say that because this person isn't it. I wonder if you're being taken in by his charm, war stories, desperate struggles, drinking problems, PSTD,... and consider yourself to be a fixer?

    You gloss over his shortcomings as though they're not a big deal (short tempered, insecurity, drinking,....). They are all red flags that you're ignoring. And, this is all within one year. Amazing. Instead of trying to figure out what's going on in his head, you need to find out what's going on in your head. To answer your question, it is "NO". All relationship stories are not like this.

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