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    I say he's sleeping with the ex. There's no other logical reason than that.

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    Why are you still involved with him? He has overstepped many boundaries, and likely sleeping with her.

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    You are clinging to a cheater who appears to be still in love with his ex. What makes you think that he will treat you any better than his former family? The man messed up the life of his own children. Why would he treat you any better?

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    How long have you been dating. Was he cheating on her with you? Yes, this is an odd arrangement. Why can't his children stay with him on his custody days? Are this ex/kids long distance? Unfortunately not only is this a weird arrangement, you don't trust him based on his past cheating and his attempts to get back with her.

    Don't be a rebound or filler while he tries to renegotiate their relationship. He's not ready to date. It's that simple.
    Originally Posted by 2019helpme
    my partner spending nights at his exs house to see their child wrong?
    He was cheating on her
    he has tried to get back with her within the last year.

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    Originally Posted by MissCanuck
    So, what are you still doing with him?

    Where is your backbone and self-respect?
    That'd explain his projection and being so controlling of who you're hang out with. It's him who's not to be trusted.

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    He said he had to stay because the child was poorly and she had asked for help.

    Even if I say anything he gets defensive.

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    Weve been seeing each other for nearly 3 years.
    He cheated on her with me then he told me they broke up before the child was born. He stays there because its a 45min drive back to where he lives.
    I do find this is a weird arrangement he just said he was staying this time because the child was poorly and she had said she may need him.

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    From the messages Ive seen she was refusing. Usually the kid does however this time it was her day and the kid was poorly and she said she may need him

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    Is this arrangement a regular thing for them? Why after 3 yrs is it troubling you now?
    Originally Posted by 2019helpme
    Weve been seeing each other for nearly 3 years. He stays there because its a 45min drive back to where he lives.
    He cheated on her with me.

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    Originally Posted by 2019helpme
    Weve been seeing each other for nearly 3 years.
    He cheated on her with me then he told me they broke up before the child was born. He stays there because its a 45min drive back to where he lives.
    I do find this is a weird arrangement he just said he was staying this time because the child was poorly and she had said she may need him.
    Most often than not the saying "how you get them is how you lose them" seems to be true.

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