Originally Posted by Redpea
It does bother me and her behavior is not acceptable. That's why I don't think she deserves to spend time with my kids if she is racist. My kids are half Asian. And another point is that she sees them just to see them! She refused to take my daughter to gymnastic or skating and expressed that she is not interested. She would spend time with my daughter like take her get groceries, watch TV , but not too much of learning experience
Well, you are kind of splitting hairs here.
If you want to be heard and understood, choose your battles wisely.
Unless it's harmful for the child, dictating exactly how they spend their time together will get you no where.