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    First kiss

    Do you think it would be cheesy to have the first kiss in a parking lot after walking her to her car?

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    . . . . . . . . . no

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    Originally Posted by BrokenGator
    Do you think it would be cheesy to have the first kiss in a parking lot after walking her to her car?
    Oh heck no! If there was chemistry she would probably love it.

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    Not at all.

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    Play it by ear. It's all about timing.
    Originally Posted by BrokenGator
    Do you think it would be cheesy to have the first kiss in a parking lot after walking her to her car?

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    Of course, totally cheesy, but don't let that stop you. If she rejects it, then she's probably not interested.

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    people always get this wrong.. tryin to pre-script their "moves". Why do we do that?
    READ the date, the situatino, your interaction, and setup the kiss well ahead of time so that it's clear you want to kiss her, that she has plenty of time to signal a "yes" or "no"..

    if you aren't clear about whether you should kiss your date and if they want you to by the time yo uwant to attempt it - don't do it. you've failed during the date to setup the kiss.
    you SHOULD KNOW already what her answer is and if she wants you to kiss her by the time you attempt it - so you know whether to attempt it.

    DON'T PRE-SCRIPT it!

    enjoy the date. be present during the date. pay attention to her during the date and her reactions to your signals. look for her signals on whether she's saying yes or no before you attempt it.

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    Originally Posted by thisisrichey
    people always get this wrong.. tryin to pre-script their "moves". Why do we do that?
    READ the date, the situatino, your interaction, and setup the kiss well ahead of time so that it's clear you want to kiss her, that she has plenty of time to signal a "yes" or "no"..

    if you aren't clear about whether you should kiss your date and if they want you to by the time yo uwant to attempt it - don't do it. you've failed during the date to setup the kiss.
    you SHOULD KNOW already what her answer is and if she wants you to kiss her by the time you attempt it - so you know whether to attempt it.

    DON'T PRE-SCRIPT it!

    enjoy the date. be present during the date. pay attention to her during the date and her reactions to your signals. look for her signals on whether she's saying yes or no before you attempt it.
    This is the same poster whose date cancelled. I'm not sure if he's interested in asking for another date.

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    Originally Posted by Keyman
    Of course, totally cheesy, but don't let that stop you. If she rejects it, then she's probably not interested.
    Probably not? Getting the cheek means you never contact her again, its what you do to see if she actually likes you or not. Make out sessions set up very good following dates and if you get the cheek, well, you don't spend anymore money dating her. win-win.

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    Absolutely not. I had my first kiss right outside my apartment building in the rain and it was extremely cheesy and although the relationship was abusive it was one of those moments I look back on fondly. Not cheesy at all!

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