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Thread: He cheated I canít get over it

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    He cheated I canít get over it

    So the day of my wedding my sister got a phone call from a young women, claiming she had been with my husband for 6months and the recently broke up she found out about me, no one told me I walked down the isle next day I found everything out. I canít seem to shake it we gave two kids. The women tried to stop my wedding... my husband has apologized but I canít get over it! What hurts the most is he told her he was just marrying
    Me to get a green card.... and she had no idea about our kids.... please help advice Iím torn

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    Others will come back with stronger advice than I could...

    Girl, realise your worth and how amazing you are. No one deserves to go through this! He is messed up in the head doing this to you. You deserve much more.

    I cant comprehend what you must be going through, stay strong. How no one spoke up is shocking also.

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    If he definitely said that to her, get a divorce sharpish!

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    What?! Is this the same guy who refuses to introduce his sons to you?

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    Yes! Same guy... Iím just torn

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    Get the marriage annulled. Pursue him for fraud. Get child support.

    You need legal representation pronto.

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    Originally Posted by SherrySher
    What?! Is this the same guy who refuses to introduce his sons to you?
    Good heavens, OP.

    You need to get away from him. You are not married to a good man. Call an attorney and find out what your rights are and if annulment is still possible. If not, find out your rights in the event of divorce. This marriage didn't happen for the right reasons.

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    I can't imagine what you're going through right now, just unbelievable...!

    I get that you were hoping for a future with this guy, but look at the facts... he is a cheating, lying, calculating conman, no matter how charming he may appear on the surface. You need to get you and your kids as far away from him as possible before he really messes up all your lives, and you need to find out what your rights are. I hope you manage to get it annulled; certainly if he did this if you were already married, it would be grounds for divorce.

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    What exactly does this creep have to do for you to end things?

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    Is that true? Does he need a green card? Where is he from?
    Originally Posted by Momof3boys
    he told her he was just marrying Me to get a green card.... and she had no idea about our kids.

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