Adding my two cents, I agree. People who don't want commitments but continue to pursue you and show interest are with you for convenience. They're frustrating because they leave you analyzing every detail of what they do and say, but it's because you known in your heart how he would be if he really wanted to be with you. As hurtful as it might be, if a woman he really wanted to be with came along, you'd be forgotten and he'd do whatever he needed to do (including commit to her) to keep her in his life, leaving her no room for guessing. He's with you because you're convenient to him. You deserve so much more than that. Don't settle.